DATING TIPS: WHY IT WORKED SO WELL LONG AGO

Men think mainly through reason and logic, women think through emotions and feelings.

We’re different and we’ll just have to deal with the fact that’s they way it is.

Our species has done it for millions of years and we’re still all alive. How did we do it when we’re so different?

Ever hear a guy say….

“Women are impossible” or
“You can’t win with women, there’s no possible way.”

Maybe you’ve even been the guy saying that.

It’s not true, that’s just the unattractive in them (or you) speaking (at least at that time).

Well our ancestors found ways to get around our differences and manage to be extremely close and in love with each other.


Best of all, they happily mate and successfully breed lots of children. People do it today too as you can tell, it’s just not as common as our ancestors time.

Well, we’ll have to go back and look at the way our ancestors did it, how everyone was satisfied.
Now if you’re thinking “Is he gonna tell me that I’m supposed to hit her on the head with a bone and drag her back to my cave?” that‘s not it at all, let me ask you a question….

How could a man, madly attract a woman with a bone in his hand and hair all over his body without using language?

I doubt this type of man could attract a woman today, he would just come across as creepy and possibly a dumb ass, but how could he do it thousands of years ago?

The reason this could all happen, is simply because the modern world today feeds us, teaches us, raises us and shows us totally different things than were existent back 2,000 - 5,000 years ago.
Is this necessarily bad, not really.

We’re exposed to different things, but one thing remains the same.

We require the same emotional as well as physical needs. They are provided differently today but the fact remains we have the same requirements.

Where the hell am I going with this, and what on God’s green earth am I trying to teach you?

That when these strategies and pieces of advice don’t work in the modern world for example….
“Be very nice to a girl and tell her she looks pretty”

…. is you’re attraction technique yet it‘s not working, sometimes it’s best to look at the ways they did it long ago or still do in nature and tie it into your life. That’s actually helped me in my game a little, I believe.

There’s a great chance it still works today in the modern world, but how could they be applied today?
I know you’re all thinking I’m crazy, here’s a descent example.

When a male Peacock walks around with his bright colors, indirectly showing predators “Here I am, I’ve got these bright colors and I’m going to flaunt them all over and I’m not embarrassed,” how could that be attractive?

Why are the females attracted to these males who are at great risk of death?
Why won’t they choose the males who can run faster and have camouflaged colors instead?

Actually because the great confidence and cockiness of the peacock showing his beautiful colors attracts them like crazy. HE GETS TO MATE.

This does not mean to wave an American flag next to terrorists or something to attract women. But by being cocky and not afraid of embarrassment, it comes across as attractive (although I don’t suggest you adopt the peacock’s intelligence level).

I use practically ancient ideas in quite a few areas of my life and it benefits me every day. My diet, exercise routine, and attraction system are all congruent with what worked thousands of years ago.
So what was attractive years ago which will ALWAYS be attractive to women until the test of time which men are using less and less of as the years pass?

1) Masculinity
2) Confidence
3) No Fear Over The Loss Of The Woman/Didn’t Matter If The Male Doesn’t Mate With The Female
4) High Social Status When With Other Males
5) Great Fighter / Protector
6) Funny
7) Cockiness

Of course there are probably other details which I didn’t mention just because they aren’t quite as important as these. After studying our past, this is what I found in males that are attractive to females. And now most important is how these 6 traits can tie into your life.

1) Masculinity means pretty much the man who hunted very well and enjoyed playing sports and being busy doing boyish things. Keep in mind playing sports and these activities are not necessary. They were attractive at the time, but I don’t find it as necessary now.

Back then, a male who didn’t hunt or engage in these activities was looked down upon and was embarrassing to his woman, this is not the case nowadays and tons of guys don’t play sports, as I said; times change.

This also ties into the metro sexual thing not being necessary. The idea is it’s okay to not feel the need to change yourself and this portrays masculinity.

2) Confidence…. This doesn’t need to be explained.

3) Not being afraid whether a girl likes you or doesn’t. This has to do with then, ‘making’ her to have to qualify herself to make you want her more. Pretty important, and I’ll discuss this later.

4) High Social Status When With Other Males. This has a lot to do with the people you hang out with. If your friends and peers don’t respect you, she probably won’t either. If you have friends that don’t respect you or look down to you, then get some new friends, man.

A girl will also judge you on your friends as well and how much you like them. The point is to show her and hang around friends who see you as an equal or value you as a friend.

Anyone who doesn’t, doesn’t deserve to be your friend. Simple.

5) Great Fighter / Protector. A man who could protect his woman from danger was always a smart choice for a woman to pick in the wilderness. Luckily this is one of the benefits of today is that we don’t have to go out everyday and worry about an attack from a tiger or bear.

6) Humor…. This doesn’t need to be explained either.

7) Cockiness… Need an example? Re-read the peacock example.


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