DATING TIPS: THE DETACHMENT FACTOR

A lot of guys make the mistake of focusing on the “end results” rather than the “process” of meeting women. That's why they often get discouraged.

They don't know that it's the PROCESS of doing something that will GET them the results.

For example...let's say you’re a beginner and it takes 10 approaches before 1 woman will go out with you.

Well, most guys would think, "Okay. I'm going to set up a goal and get 10 women to come out with me by the end of the week".

But after asking out 5 women without getting any results, they get discouraged and either lower their goal or forget about the whole thing completely.


The smart guy sets up a different goal that enables him to focus on the PROCESS rather than the END RESULTS.

For example, he says to himself, "I'm going to ask 100 women out this week." At the end of the day, since he has asked 100 women out, he ends up going out with 10 of them and sleeping with 5 of them.

Now...I am exaggerating this a bit...but you see my point: It's the ACTION gets you outcome, not the outcome itself.

So...have fun meeting and INTERACTING with women rather than trying to pick them up.

Flirt...but only to bring pleasure to the girls... NOT to pick them up.

Let go of ALL of your expectations! Having this attitude can give you much more success with women.


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