DATING TIPS: DO NOT SMOTHER THE GIRL

This means don’t be the pervert who follows her through the malls, shopping centers and school hallways or sits at her lunch table all period and doesn’t say hardly a word but just hopes by being near her.

The same one who calls that night to talk on the phone for hours and get nowhere with her.
Then she turns around to her friends and says he’s a loser.

Yes, you can guess what I did, I smothered her the next day by coming by at around 10am to hang out. We went inside her house and just stayed there and I pretty much killed it.

The moment I began to like her and wanted her more, the more she pulled away and found better things to do. She moved on and we weren’t even friends.

That night I had stopped by, we both wanted each other pretty bad, but through my desperateness for her attraction, it quickly died out.


The lesson here is too many guys are waiting on the woman hand and foot.

If you reverse the roles and have her want you 24/7, it puts you in the position where you are in control.

My idea of control is not when you are in charge of what she does and says and you make the rules, etc… but it’s when you take charge of the interaction and/or situation as it‘s happening….
Don’t allow her to get out of control.

And don’t allow her to control you.

What is the punishment if she fails to follow your rules?

Her punishment if she fails to control herself, becomes a hassle or is no longer attractive to you, is she loses your attention and attraction.

This is a big punishment if you manage to be attractive to her and come across as charming and respectful. This will not really be much of a punishment if you are unattractive (not physically) or become an asshole.

Now, don’t mistake this advice I’ve given so far as you have to be Mr. Macho man where you must control her and not allow her to get out of line or there’s punishment.

That’s how an asshole thinks, not an attractive man.

By smothering a girl, it’s where you spend all of your time on her and do the OPPOSITE of being in control, where she is given the power and you’re at her every whim.

Don’t jump into opportunities to meet her places, do things and hang out and don’t stay on the phone too long, which is another way to smother her which

I’ll talk about later.

Of course every other time or once in a while it’s fine to meet her places and do things, just not all the time.

By making yourself a challenge, it makes her want you to be around a lot more and you can do that without jumping into opportunities to be with her.

If she asks for you to go to her house, tell her “You probably just want to bring me into your bedroom and take advantage of me, in this case I‘m going to have to turn you down on your offer.”
See where I’m going?

This is just the opposite of saying “Yes, yes I’ll be right over.” and yet so much more productive. It gets her to want you to come over 2x as bad.


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