DATING TIPS: APPERANCE = 20% SUCCESS

A good-looking guy is only guaranteed about 15-20% success.

His confidence, humor and attitude happen to be mainly the determining factors between getting a smoking hot supermodel or some ugly chick who’s upset she only gets to go home with this guy based on looks with no personality.

Don’t let these metro sexual dudes fool you.

A lot of them aren’t doing too well with the ladies from what I find.

Quite a few of my friends happen to have the metro look and girls approach them all the time, none want to take my advice and they get pissed when I get hotter chicks.

A lot of guys don’t know what they’re doing and spend their time finding ways to look better, when meanwhile they should be smart like everyone who’s reading this manual right now and learn to actually attract girls through a woman‘s natural desires.


It’s funny to me just about how many guys feel they’ll ruin their self-image by reading dating information, and just go run and cry in their closet because they’re not handsome and have no answers.

Pathetic -- but it happens everyday.

I know just about every chapter in this book probably tells you looks don’t matter etc. well I believe they do though.

They happen to be correct in the fact features like abs, biceps, pecs or a handsome face little or no affect, but there are just some parts of a man’s physical image which needs to be groomed and taken care of.

These are….

Nails - Keep finger and toenails trimmed. Do it yourself or have a girl do it for you or get a manicure and/or pedicure at a salon somewhere. It’s necessary to keep them trimmed and free of dirt which women do look for. Keep a clipper in the car with the little thing that cleans dirt out on it too just
in case.

Hair - If you’re bald, part of the idea of being attractive is the ability to take a flaw and making it an advantage. So what I’m saying is DON’T try and hide your baldness through having a comb-over or the horseshoe type of hairdos.

Embrace it and just shave the whole head, women love it. Ponytails can be cool on some guys, I’ll allow that.

If your hair turns gray, you don’t need to dye it back to black or brown or whatever. Girls don’t mind gray hair, some find it sexy actually.

Get your hair cut about once a month and try although great or good hair isn‘t really necessary.

But it isn’t hard to find a haircut that will suit you, I’d just suggest going to a salon and asking the hairstylist, “What do you think I’d look good in?” I’m sure he/she’d be more than happy to suggest and try a cool new haircut that would look good on you.

Clothes - Try not to wear any salvation army clothes guys. My dad happens to meet a lot of girls wearing his nasty 70’s looking jeans and faded old shirts but it’s not a suggestion. If you can’t afford good clothes, no need to worry, it’s not a necessity.

I do advise dressing nice if you want girls to approach you, but once again, clothes aren’t a determining factor in her attraction.

I also suggest not getting too much baggy clothes or anything to that extent, loose fitting clothes are good and from what girls I know say; loose fits are so much more sexy now.

Times change, so I can’t say if it’ll be fashionable tomorrow so ask girls you know on their takes.

Jewelry - I don’t wear a lot of jewelry. Anything that portrays I’m rich or have a lot of money is no good for me, that’s not the angle I work or am teaching you guys to work. I do wear a few gold rings once in a while but not too often.

So as you can see, the rules aren’t very complicated to appearance. These factors are important, but not #1 on your list of thing to improve or work on. If looks mattered that much, I’d be writing a fashion and hairstyling book for men.

I’m not, because you can do without that stupid crap guys spend their whole day on. Plucking their eyebrows, waxing their legs, chests and asses, tanning and buying expensive shoes and tuxedos, thinking this is where attraction is.

“Leave the shaving below the neck to us,” as some women say.

I continue to follow that rule and if you choose not to, that’s fine.

Just don’t get caught up on appearance and get short-sighted.

It’s vital to continue to keep your personality #1 when attracting gorgeous babes. Remain cocky, confident and funny and women will see past your looks no matter how bad or good they may be.


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