DATING TIPS: DENIED! WHEN YOU GOT DITCH

We all know denial sucks, but there’s great ways of handling it.

I have my own personal ways of handling it instead of telling myself I don’t need a girl like that and she’s not worth my time, because a lot of the time, when I started out, I had absolutely no clue on how to start a conversation with a girl.

Sometimes she was worth my time but I just went about it wrong. THERE’S A FOOLPROOF BACKUP, YAY!

What I would do if let’s say she says “Get out of here loser!” would be to purposefully go with it and say “YES I AM A LOSER, I AM NOT WORTHY TO SPEAK TO YOU AND APOLOGIZE FOR BEING WITHIN YOUR PRESENCE,” or something to that effect.

DATING TIPS: GOING ABOUT THE APPROACH

Well, this is a lot different than just getting up the courage to approach a girl.

Now you gotta know what to say.

You can’t just talk about how cool the book she’s reading is, can you?

The answer is -- probably.

Staying on an interesting topic from what I find still works pretty well with girls.

As long as you make her laugh a little and maybe pull a little “you want me” technique out can work wonders. Warning, be careful and don’t get too excited to use the “you want me” technique if it doesn’t feel right. Just teasing and laughing should keep her attracted.

DATING TIPS: THE APPROACH

Ok guys, time to move out.

My suggestion, get out there and hit on all kinds of girls. Whether she’s attractive or not, the idea is to find great ways for you to start conversations with her.

Ask her questions about her clothes, what she’s reading at the time or tease her about something she’s got on or the activity she’s doing, whatever.

I want you guys to be laughing, having fun and connecting.

Find a wise ass comment to make about anything that’s just not going to offend her. Have a good time but most of all -- learn.

This approach thing is made too complicated by guys who get nervous.

DATING TIPS: WHERE TO FIND THE BABES

The answer is everywhere.

I really don’t go searching for girls, I just always come across them it seems at the mall, Wal-Mart or gas station.

They’re everywhere!

To guys who’d want to know this, if you live in a rural area, you’ll need to probably get out unless you have one girl in mind you want to attract and know where to find her.

Bars and Nightclubs are okay to go to, I don’t, but it’s still full of hot chicks all dressed up for a man to come and sweep them off their feet. I find girls everywhere and never had this problem at all.

If you live in an urban area and were waiting for this question to come up, smack yourself! There’s probably 10 girls outside your window right now but you’re too worried about where to find girls and not worried enough about how to get them.

Look right under your nose guys, they’re any place interesting, uninteresting and anywhere in public

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DATING TIPS: ACCUSE HER OF WANTING YOU

This tip isn’t really too tricky at all.

The idea is whenever she brings up a subject about sex or something to that affect, to accuse her of insinuating she wants you or sex from you.

This is to be done in a fun and playful manner, but you’ll still need to hold the belief she actually DOES want you. This is the key to really getting her going.

Ever since a kid, I told ugly girls who I knew liked me, I knew they wanted me and it seemed to turn them on like crazy. Through a little testing, I found the same crap worked on hot girls.

Although then I rarely used it, I believe that if I find 2-3 times to accuse a girl of wanting me (or sex from me) is probably the best amount.

DATING TIPS: TAKE THE LEAD

Ok -- so you’re at a dance and there’s a girl who you want to dance with.

You’ve been talking to her for 5 minutes and a really great song comes on and you want to dance with this chick, how does you ask her to dance?

YOU DON’T.

Let’s compare what you would probably say in junior high, to what you and me are going to be saying by the end of this manual.

Junior High comment:
You - “Hi um, I was just wondering if it was okay if I could dance with you to this song?”
Her- “No I really don’t wanna.”
You- “Well gee, okay.”

DATING TIPS: GIVE HER CHALLENGES

Whenever I’m with a girl, I love to challenge her to all kinds of things.

Basketball, Arcade games, ping pong whatever’s available for a good challenge.

It’s great to kid around and create challenges because it’s showing your cocky side. Guys who don’t provide a challenge are going to have to work another angle because I’ve never had a successful date without being a challenge or challenging her on things.

Now during the challenge, I kind of do some trash talking (of course I’m fooling around) by saying things like “Man you never shouldn’t have accepted my challenge, now your gonna get whooped!” or “Prepare to get embarrassed, my dear!”

Little things like this can begin a whole bunch of friendly conflict and fun.

It’s also great to cheat a little, like poke her in the side before she takes a jumpshot or try and get a peak at her cards when playing poker.

After you messed her up it’s great to tell her she stinks at it.

Create challenges all the time and watch the attraction build.

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