DATING TIPS: PLAYFUL TEASING THROUGH WORDS

This has to do back with what I said about my kindergarten story.

It works, the idea is not to put them down or make them feel bad, but to just point out something or tease a girl about anything and everything (try and avoid physical jokes unless you feel she‘ll be comfortable with it).

Find anything, her purse, shoes, glasses, what she’s doing, how she’s doing it, where she’s going and make a smart or wise ass comment about it sure to make her laugh.

The intention of your playful teasing is not to tease; keep in mind your intention is to attract her and nothing else. Most guys get offset and decide to do this teasing thing all night and it winds up pissing her off.

Tease her when you have a funny or naughty little comment that comes to mind and don’t hold back. I had to re-learn this skill from kindergarten and I‘d say it‘s the best one to have.


All too often guys are afraid and hold back on teasing girls because it could “ruin their chances”. It seems men with only the intention to have fun and don’t really care much what she thinks of him happen to get the best results.

Don’t hold back when you have a funny comment, and don’t worry what she’ll think. You’ll know it worked if she laughs along or if she playfully smacks you on the arm (or even the ass, then you can be sure it’s working).

It’s often good to approach girls and use the teasing technique.

It’s one of my favorite approaches to use when you’re kinda lost.

For instance I would say “Now that’s weird, I’ve never seen a purse with handles like that before, it sure is… different.” (keep in mind, only say this if her purse really is weird) and she could say “Well yea, actually a lot of girls have a purse like this.” and I’ll respond “Uh huh, well I’ve never seen one
before, so I’m assuming that’s your cover up for not being like the other girls, it’s ok if you’re different I still accept you for who you are (with this exaggerated smile on my face).”

Conversations similar to this one usually get girls laughing and willing to flirt and tease back which is always fun.

Now when you’re teasing a girl and it hasn’t gone over too well, usually there’s one of three possible reasons for this from my experience which are usually the only cases that ever come up.

1) You’re joke wasn’t funny, or funny enough
2) The topic you decided to point out wasn’t very interesting (possibly offensive)
3) She can’t take a joke

Now

Situation #1, I really can’t help you out with, if the joke didn’t work out too well it’s okay, there’s plenty of fish in the sea and plenty more jokes as well. You’ll just have to find something funnier next time.

Situation #2 can be avoided, but not with all women.
Once again, I can’t help you if the topic you tried wasn’t funny, I still get that problem a lot. If you used an offensive line, it’s fine, just apologize, learn and move on.

In situation #3 it’s best to move on.
I really haven’t found a great way to get around a girls mood when she’s not in the mood for joking around. If she can’t take a joke or seems to be in a bit of a bitchy mood, I’ll leave her alone.

Not worth your time.

The best thing to remember about teasing is as long as it’s not too offensive, you can find just about anything to make a wise ass comment about and use it.

Remember not to be too worried about what she’ll think or if you’ll ruin your chances, just have fun.


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