DATING TIPS: COCKINESS, NOT ARROGANCE

Ok guys, you’ll need to know the difference between cockiness and arrogance.

A few of my more ignorant friends think arrogance is the answer, but don’t get any girls.

What is that saying?

A lot of girls already have themselves prepared to avoid and pass by all arrogant, mean or conceited guys when they leave the house. Arrogant guys repel women because girls hate assholes.

That’s simple and understandable.

Too many guys just go out and try and be just arrogant and good-looking.


I could make a graph right now of the difference between successful guys’ idea of attractive and the unsuccessful guys’ ideas.

Unsuccessful: Too Nice + Charming
                        Too Kind + Sensitive

Sometimes I see… Arrogant + Quiet, which never works

Semi-Successful: Nice + Outgoing

Nice + Funny also see…. Arrogant + Good-Looking

Successful: Cocky + Funny
                   Funny + Outgoing

As to my experience, arrogant + good-looking guys usually wind up with the one night stands.

Girls are always more for the cocky, outgoing men.

My point, DON’T mistake being cocky as arrogant.

I had that problem and once I realized I needed to be less into myself and a pay a little more attention to her than me, a lot changed.

Here are the definitions….

Arrogant: Overbearing and self important
Cocky: Excessively self-confident

There you have it folks.

That’s Webster’s definition of the two words. You can obviously see the difference, one is good and one is not good.


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