WHAT IF A WOMAN TELLS YOU SHE IS NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP

When a woman tells you she isn't ready for a relationship, most of the time she really means one of the following three statements:

1) "I am ready for a relationship - but not with you."

Remember that a woman has to be attracted to you before she will have a relationship with you. So if a woman turns you down because she is "not ready", you should ask yourself this:
"Is she really not ready, or does she just not want to give me false hope?" Search your feelings, young Jedi. If you feel a lot of pain, insecurity, or discomfort, chances are, she probably doesn't like you that much.



Remember: It doesn't matter she recently got out of a relationship. If she REALLY, REALLY, REALLY likes you, she will want to be with you. It's simple as that.

2) "I am attracted - just not enough."
The second possibility is that she IS attracted to you, but "not enough" to start a relationship yet. Now, here comes the bad news. If that's what she means, then it means you've screwed up already by advancing too fast. Pull back IMMEDIATELY and start focusing on building the attraction instead of trying to "get serious" with her. The more you try to turn her into a girlfriend before she's attracted to you, the more you will push her away.

3) "I am a party girl."
The last possibility is that she is not ready for any sort of relationship because she is a party girl.
If that's the case, then don't try to change her.

A party girl doth not a good girlfriend make. You're going to end up in a world of hurt in the long run.