ARE YOU IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP

Here are a couple of questions to ask yourself.

1) Has your girlfriend ever been sexually abused as a child?
2) Does your girlfriend blame you when she does something bad? (As in it’s always "YOUR" fault.)
3) Is your girlfriend chronically angry or depressed?
4) Is your girlfriend unpredictable?
5) Has your girlfriend ever abused you?
6) Does your girlfriend have double standards for your behavior and her behavior?
7) Has your girlfriend ever tried to manipulate you?
8) Is your girlfriend incompetent in daily living skills? (Loses job after job, etc.)
9) Does your girlfriend hang around a “bad” group of people?
10) Does your girlfriend exhibit any anti-social behavior?

If you have answered "yes" to any of these questions, you should be extremely careful with your relationship. All of these "symptoms", except for number one - which is okay if she has put it behind her or learned to manage her pain - are deadly.