DATING TIPS: UNDERSTAND THAT GIRLS JUST WANT TO HAVE FUN

If you can just understand that girls/women today just want to have FUN more than ever before in history, you're going to be a lot better off if you provide it to them.

I'm talking about today's women whose role model is more Carrie from 'Sex and the City' rather than 'Ma Cleaver' from ‘Leave it to Beaver’.

Yes, things used to be very traditional and things used to work; date a few women, choose one and want to get married, get married and live together without getting divorced.

Times have changed in the past few decades.

Now there is still the teachings being taught down from our parents to 'date a woman' and basically 'court' her for MARRIAGE.

When you take this path of 'dating', you're going to be dealing with all kinds of drama and heavy handed implications that are bigger than yourself.


Should I kiss her?

Should I buy her dinner again?

After how many dates might I get to have sex with her? Etc…

When she's 'dating' you for long term, of course she's going to withhold sex so she can keep you around.

Often times, women now will use men (who are throwing themselves at her courting her) to get free meals without ever giving much of anything in exchange other than her time and these assclowns feel lucky enough to be around her because they think she's 'so beautiful' and a great 'catch'.

Little do they know that the one guy she's running to is the guy that isn't being like all of these suitors... she's running into the arms of the closest guy who she can feel 'free' around and get rid of all these societal pressures.

She wants to have fun, experience her own sexuality and enjoy it WITHOUT having to have the thoughts of raising a family with every guy she has sex with.

Times HAVE changed.

She can now go through the accelerated mating process and feel all those wonderful feelings from men that can give it to her (not the suitors) without feelings of dependency, future expections, drama or remorse.

If you can be THIS guy...

You can be the guy she has her fun and sexual fulfillment with instead of the assclown buying her flowers, NOT giving her what she wants (she's not looking for marriage and when she is, she really wants to get to know a guy naturally first w/o all those connotations) and never getting anywhere.
She has a lot of pressure and competition now because her qualities are more like a man's traditionally and she's looking to exercise her own independence and break through her repression through outlets.

Today's modern, social, independent women want to have FUN and exercise their sexual freedom without drama.

They want to have that option and will the closest outlet they can.

You can be that guy WITHOUT having to be a bad boy or jerk in order to add value to HER life and give her an unforgettable time.

You can be that guy WITHOUT being a little wussbag because how on earth can she have fun if you'retreating it like a dependency... it's dragging her down.

Adopt the same 'fun' state of mind and take all the pressure off... they WANT to meet fun, sociable guys like them without all kinds of heavy implications just when they meet you.

Don't build up so much value or importance on it... just have fun.

Set the relationship right away on your terms with AMP (accelerated mating program) if you really want to get straight to the point and see where she stands with you.

After meeting her or definitely by the time you follow up first (at the latest), you could let her know that you don't 'date women'... there's too much heavy connotations and expectations associated with it that prevents you from really getting to know her.

Let her know you're going to have a lot of fun together... then you can hang up on her; who cares!
There's no dependency going on here.

There's a million ways you could take it but you have to frame it near the beginning and really be living YOUR reality.

Then either she'll call you later or you can call her in a few days and confirm she's up for it and then set out a meeting date (not focused on money or dating) that is just casual to take it from there.

Or collect phone numbers and just let women know that you ONLY want to have fun and physical relationships.

When they sense that really is your reality, they'll become more interested and wonder if you have other girls as well (which actually helps).

Tease her, play with her and indulge in each other in a mutually respectful interdependent way.
You'll be the guy that she runs back to for great sex and social freedom when she cries on the shoulder of nicer guys who are not keeping up with the times and still trying to 'suit' her or impress her for a long term relationship when that's not what they want either.

There's so much more to learn.

Make sure you learn the natural way as best you can because it's more important and will actually get your life heading more in the direction you want it to go AS A MAN and in your relationship to Women.

You can live your dream life as a reality with women by being an uberplayer, a non rare natural which is more effective than a pick up artist.


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