DATING TIPS: THE CHALLENGE FACTOR

Every woman enjoys a good challenge.

Here are ten ways to act like a challenge on a date:

1) Don't Ask, Lead

This one is VERY important. A lot of guys ask stupid things like "Would you like to go to this restaurant?", "Can I go to the bathroom", or even worse, "Can we do this again some other time?"
And they wonder why they never get a second date!

Listen, buddy.

Confident men do NOT ask women for permission to do ANYTHING.

They JUST do it.
They don't ask for a kiss.
They don't ask for a second date.
They don't ask for ANYTHING.


So next time you go out on a date... please... JUST LEAD THE WAY.

Instead of asking "Can we...", just say "let's..." and lead her by the arm.

But never, never, NEVER ask a woman ANYTHING.

Remember, boys: If a woman doesn't like something, she will make sure you know.

2) Never Give a Direct "Yes".

If a woman asks you for something, don't just give it to her like all the other pussy guys out there. Make her WORK for it. (Remember, psychology tells us that we appreciate the things we have to WORK for MUCH more than the "freebies".)

For example...if she asks, "Can we go to Japanese?" Don't just say "yes."

Say..."Maybe...", or you can even tease her and say, "I don't know, only good girls get treated to Japanese. Are you a nice girl?" Or if she asks, "Can we sit over there?", instead of just following her ass like most guys would, grow some spine and say, "No. I'd rather sit here. It's a much nicer view here."

The key is to start getting you to act like a MAN.

3) Don't let her "interview" you.

If you want a second date, then you better not let your woman "interview" you. Women love to interview men on a first date...so they can weed out all the losers.

And guess what?

That means if you screw up on just ONE question...you're a GONER.

G-O-N-E-R.

Goner.

And this is EXACTLY why you shouldn't let her interview you in the first place. Whenever she asks things like "So what do you do" or "How much do you make?", just give her a silly answer...like..."Why, are you one of those superficial women? How much do YOU make?"
Whatever she says, just TURN IT AROUND playfully.

4) Lift up Your Chest, Tuck Your Tummy In

Want to project confidence physically?

Do what Sergeant Marius says in the Dating Bootcamp, "Chest up, tummy in, boys."
This will NATURALLY put you in a confident position.

Ever seen a marine walk?

That's how I want you to walk. Chest up, tummy in, soldier!

5) End The Date Early

So the date has been going really well and there's a LOT of chemistry between you and your new love.

End it now.

I am serious. I want you to ALWAYS end the date early to keep the power in YOU. Make your date wonder why you have to go. Make her WANT to go out with you again.

Most guys just drag a good date on and on until it becomes a bad date. Don't be the same. Be a man and have the power and self-control to end it early.

6) Don't Let Her Challenge You

If you act like a wussy and back down whenever a woman challenges you, her attraction for you is going to drop faster than an apple dropping down from a tree. Most guys make the mistake of thinking they should never risk "offending" a woman by showing her their spines.

WRONG.
Never bow down to a woman you like.
Don't suck up to her whenever she challenges you. Because if you do, she's going to lose respect for you as a potential boyfriend or lover.

So next time a woman challenges you, have some spine and stand up for yourself.
For example...

If a woman tries to challenge you or to seduce you by staring into your eyes, stare back. Don't look away until SHE does. (The moment you look away and blush in shyness, she's going to lose respect for you as a man and find another man who's stronger.)

7) Don't Talk About A Second Date

Never talk about a second date while you're still on the first date. Be a challenge - don't act like a eager beaver.

Remember my golden rule: Take it one date at a time.

8) Don't Tell Her You Like Her
Never, never, NEVER tell a woman you like her.
Don't EVER try to "express your feelings for her". That is worse than ripping your own spine out and strangling yourself with it.

I am not kidding.

Once it's out in the open that you like her, half the game is over. SHE will have all the power, not you.

Girls love trying to figure out if a guy likes them or not. It's part of the dating game. So don't take it away from them!

9) Let Her Think She's Not The Only One

If she asks you if you're seeing anybody else, don't freak out and say, "No. Just you."
Be a MAN and be a CHALLANGE.

Say something like, "Well, I have a couple of possible prospects right now.

We'll see who wins." Then flash her a smile.

10) Be In Control From The Beginning To The End

This is extremely important. If you're taking a girl out, even casually, then you should be literally taking her out and giving her a good time. You shouldn't be seeking her permission every step of the way.

You should be SWEEPING HER OFF HER FEET instead. She's in YOUR WORLD now - give her a good reason to stay there.


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