DATING TIPS: THE BOYFRIEND FACTOR

So you’ve just met a girl…and she tells you she has a boyfriend.

What do you do?

It's simple. You ignore her.

Why?

Because there’s a possibility she’s using it as an excuse to brush off guys that approach her. Also, even if she DOES have a boyfriend, it's not how much she is attracted to her boyfriend, but how much she is attracted to YOU that matters.


Let's face it. How much she likes her boyfriend is COMPLETELY beyond your control. It is just not something you can change.

You could tell a woman her boyfriend's a jerk EVERY DAY, but that wouldn't change a thing. Nothing you say could EVER change the opinion of a woman about her lover. Because at the end of the day, her attraction for her boyfriend will cut through EVERYTHING.

However, the love balance scale in the Smart Dating Course tells us that if a girl's attraction for you outweighs her attraction for her boyfriend's, she will go for YOU instead.

And since you can't change her feelings about her boyfriend, the ONLY thing you can work on is her attraction towards YOU.

This means you should just work on attracting her and raising the chemistry with her without worrying her boyfriend at all. Just ignore he exists. Never mention him and NEVER argue with your girl about dumping her boyfriend.

Leave ALL the arguments to between her and him. If she fights with him whenever she sees him, but has a nice time every time she sees YOU, who do you think she's going to like more?

Not such a hard question to answer, is it?


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