DATING TIPS: THE FRIENDSHIP FACTOR

Have you ever been attracted to a girl who just wants to "be friends" with you? Don’t worry. In the next few moments, I am going to show you how you can turn a "friend" into a "girlfriend" without jeopardizing your friendship with her.

A lot of guys like to fantasize about befriending a hottie and sucking up to her until she finally sees what a great guy he is and starts dating him.

Ugh. It doesn't work that way.

You see, to a woman, there are 2 categories of men:

"Potential lovers" and "just friends".


Once you have fallen into the "just friends" category, it's hard to get out. You are most likely going to be stuck for life. I call this the "friendship trap".
So...if you meet a girl you like, please…make your move. Do not become the "doormat" she runs to when she is between boyfriends.

Now, maybe you're "stuck" as a friend already (too bad you hadn’t read this earlier eh?) so I'm going to give you a few tips on how to turn a friend into a girlfriend.

First of all, DON'T tell your friend you like her!

I am serious. DO NOT tell your friend you like her directly.

Most guys spend days or weeks gathering the courage to tell a girl they like her, only to fail miserably!

Remember the key to attraction is... it's not how much you're attracted to a woman, but how much she is attracted to YOU that matters.

Women do not care about how much a man loves them. They only care about how much THEY like a man. I am sure you like her, but does she like you? YOU DON'T KNOW! And that's why you should NOT risk embarrassing yourself!

Also, men who "gather the courage" to "suddenly tell the girl he loves her" usually do it at the "wrong" time, like when a girl least expects it. Surprises are scary and women don't know how to react.

Their NATURAL reaction is to turn you down on the spot ("I have a boyfriend" or "I am not looking for someone right now", etc) just to be safe - even if they may regret it later.

So, instead of putting the focus on your feelings and worrying about how you can tell her you love her, I want you to focus on getting HER to tell you she likes you.

Now, the biggest difference between a friendship and a relationship is that there is sexual/romantic chemistry in a relationship, and that's why I want you to start flirting with her and drive the chemistry up.

It's time to ATTRACT her, not to chase her. Your goal is to get HER to fall for you and eventually ask you the "Are we together?" question.

Lastly, flirting with her will allow you to see if she likes you or not. If she ignores you or doesn't respond well to the flirting, then she's not interested in you. But if she flirts back, she wants you!






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