If you're going after a girl but she's not responding to you the way you would like her to, chances are you are lacking sexual tension. So what is sexual tension?

It is the subtle force that connects two people together. You know how when you first meet a girl and there's something that draws you towards her...but at the same time, there's a great deal of "uncertainty" in the air because you're not sure if she feels the same way about you?

In time, this tension grows stronger and stronger until you can't help but to think about her day and night. The sexual tension then amplifies into LUST and you feel like you HAVE to spend more time with your girl.

Now...wouldn't it be great if you could get a girl to experience the SAME feelings towards YOU?
Of course it would.

Unfortunately, most guys are afraid of using sexual tension to attract women. They are afraid of raising this tension because of the "uncertain feelings" attached. To these guys, this tension feels foreign...or even uncomfortable.

They are afraid that if they raise it any higher and risk "offending" the girl the girl they like, they will lose all chances with her.


If you build up sexual tension with a girl, she's going to become VERY attracted to you. For example, a girl could be acting "pissed" and hitting you on the arm when you tease her. But an hour later, she could be begging for your phone number.

Now...tell me...would you rather have a girl who feels NOTHING for you...or a girl who feels LUST and PASSION for you? I think the answer is clear. So how do you develop sexual tension?

Personally, I find it very helpful to pretend I'm fishing whenever I'm flirting with a woman.

1) Think of sexual tension as a fishing line. When she expects you to pull her in, give her slack to let her swim free. This will throw her off balance and make her swim closer to you. (Application: Be a challenge and NOT do the things she expects.)

2) Then you SUDDENLY jerk back the line and throw her off-balance again. This will sink your hook deeper into her, making it harder for her to escape. (Application: After telling her that you just want to be "friends", you suddenly grab her hand.)

3) Keep this tension up, and reel her in slowly. Eventually, she'll be yours to

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