HOW TO HAVE SPONTANEITY IN KISSING

Steal your partner away for a quick second whether you are at a party or out in public. Take them by the hand and pull them to a secluded private area, then give them a big kiss. Pull away and drag them back inside. This will give them such a rush, wanting more but knowing they can’t get it right now. You are in control of the situation, and there is nothing your partner can do about it. It can be quite a turn on to have no control over a situation. Then, when you finally are alone, you will be able to kiss away, and the sparks that started earlier won’t be lost.

The trick here is to be totally discreet and don’t let anyone know what you are up to. Part of the excitement is the spontaneity and the anticipation of what will come later. You will be the only two in the room that will know about it. Don’t pull them away, though, if it is totally obvious to everyone what you are doing. That will spoil the fun. If you can’t pull them away, mention that you really need to talk to them in private, or even whisper that you would like to kiss them but for obvious reasons you can’t. It will stay on their mind all night.

When your partner gives you a quick peck in the morning when they are running late for work, pull them back in and give them an unexpected proper kiss. Don’t be too long, though; remember they are in a rush. Once you have given them a proper kiss, say goodbye and carry on like nothing happened. This will leave them with a smile on their face thinking about it all day. Don’t do this too often, though, because they will come to expect it and it won’t be as much of a surprise anymore.


Sweet little kisses on the mouth in between whispering, “I love you,” or other compliments like, “You have such kissable lips,” or, “You have such beautiful eyes,” is very romantic. Say it with your eyes open. This way you are saying it to them and they know you mean it. You’re not just swept up in the moment.
A kiss on the hand is nice, something a little less than a kiss, but still letting the person know you like them. It is on a different level than a kiss on the mouth, but it is one of those gestures that can say more than words.

Kisses on the forehead when you are standing facing your partner is a surprise. They might think you are going to kiss them on the lips, but they get one on the forehead or somewhere else that is just as nice. Just be sure you are tall enough to reach!

Start with kissing your partner on the hand and slowly work your way up their arm and up the neck. Start off slow then get faster and when you get to their neck give them a kiss where you nuzzle your nose in. This is a funny romantic kiss, because it is different (and may remind you both of the Addams Family!). Also their neck will start to tickle. This is fun, and it can sometimes turn into a more passionate kiss.

Raspberry kisses have been around forever, and you may remember them from when you were a small child. While they are still the same kind of thing, they take on a totally different meaning. Sometimes when you are fooling around, raspberry kisses can lighten the mood a little, and they always bring a smile to peoples faces. To give a raspberry kiss (they work best on the stomach but can be given on the cheek) open your lips slightly and put them on skin, add pressure so your lips and their skin forms a kind of seal. Now blow as hard as you can. Your lips kind of flutter, causing a tingling sensation on your partner’s skin.

When you partner closes their eyes, kiss their eyelids with soft butterfly kisses. This lets them know that you are still looking at them even though they can’t see you.

Whisper something sweet in their ear then finish it of with a quick peck on their ear. The sensation of someone lightly breathing in your ear makes your hairs stick up at the best of times, and if they are doing this while saying something romantic it is a bonus. Sealing it with a kiss finishes it all nicely.
Around Christmas time, always look out for mistletoe for your opportunity to kiss your partner. Have a supply around the house so you can pull it out at any time. They have to give you a kiss now because it is mistletoe. Even when it isn’t Christmas, get hold of some mistletoe as a joke, but make sure you get a kiss for it. Don’t try it too often; otherwise, the funniness will wear off.

For an adventurous twist, try placing a strawberry, grape, chocolate or other food in your mouth and lean towards them so they remove it from your mouth. This is both romantic and funny. The best thing is that you get a treat at the end of it.

When you are kissing, gently stroke your partner’s hair or run your fingers through it, so it lets them know you feel comfortable kissing them. There are also a lot of very sensitive nerves on the top of the head, so it is very relaxing when someone is stroking it. Take note if they have done their hair nicely though, as you don’t want to mess their hair up. This could have quite the opposite effect!
Kiss the top of your partner’s head when watching TV or cuddling for any reason. Even when you are just relaxing and enjoying each other’s company, it is still nice for your partner to know you appreciate them.

Squeeze their hand when you give them a kiss. It brings them back to reality a little and lets them know you are really enjoying it. Also, because all they are thinking about is the kiss, when they feel their hand being squeezed there is another sensation somewhere else.

Unexpected kisses for no reason are always valued! There shouldn’t always be a reason for why you have to kiss each other. These are sometimes more meaningful than kisses that have a reason.

Next time you are in an elevator with the one you enjoy kissing so much (as long as you are the only two in there), stand facing forward till the doors close then quickly turn and kiss them, then turn again to face the door and wait for your destination.

Do you hate having nothing to do in the car when the traffic lights are red? Lean over and give your passenger a quick peck on the check; this will probably be unexpected but romantic at the same time.
When a kiss changes from soft and slow to fast and passionate, it gets the blood pumping faster around the body. This is awesome the first time, because it is like the relationship is heading towards a more intimate level and you get all those wonderful feelings from the first kiss all over again.
When you wake in the middle of night, roll over and give your partner a little hug and kiss. Little things like that in the dead of night are heartfelt and reassuring. There is also the chance they will be a little awake so will remember it in the morning.

One of my favorite kisses is when you are in bed talking just before you go to sleep. You are both talking about nothing in particular in between kissing. You are comfortable with your heads close together and can just make out each other in the dark. It is the time when you are winding down to go to sleep and your head is cleared of most thoughts and you are happy to be with each other. These kisses make for sweet dreams.

Come up to them from behind and cover their eyes (but make sure you don’t give them too much of a fright), and softly kiss their neck. Lovely!

Kisses with sound effects, sound a little strange? Well it’s not. When you are kissing your partner, making a little mmm sound will let them know that you are enjoying it so they will relax a little and continue, especially now they know you are happy. Mmmm.

Now I know you would have seen this in the movies, but it is as good as it looks in real life. Grab your partner’s face in your hands or place your hand behind their head and pull them in to give them a slow, long, lingering kiss. You will have total control over the kiss and they will feel this; it will be like they are being protected.


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