DATING TIPS: RESPECT WOMEN

Now before you think either way what this could mean, read what I have to say.
I'm not talking about being a pansy or a nice guy.

Most guys 'act nice' and are NOT really being themselves, they just want to please her to ultimately get something in the end or really ARE afraid of her.

If you've been a 'nice guy' to women and end up as their friends... well are you really acting like yourself?

Or are you changing your entire physiology when a woman steps in the room?

You're actually disrespecting her by objectifying her and building up a mountain of false added value within yourself and placing a perception onto her without even giving her a chance.

Just be a man and give her a chance to see if she's more than just a pretty face; she'll respect YOU for being yourself.


Then you take it or leave it because although you respect her as a woman (knowing she has sexual desires that you can fulfill and she has her own life and beliefs) you don't need her or have to appease her for your own selfvalidation.

Neither are you just viewing her as a sex object only, but if you respect her and be upfront about what you want and she wants to also have a physical relationship, you can both have it respectfully without all of the other drama involved or having to be a 'nice guy'.

You DO think about and desire sex, don't you?

Well is THAT a 'nice' thing?

Stop being incongruent with your own desires and face the fact that you really are something more than 'just' a nice guy.

It's in a man's nature to desire sex and it's up to you to embrace it and be comfortable with it and communicate that to women.

They RESPECT real men underneath all of the social brainwashing that's out there.
And when you communicate that you are comfortable in your own skin, you're an independent man, a leader, a provider and protector.

Relationships are supposed to be interdependent and NOT dependent (like they are when she senses you're 'creepy', clingy or would continuously drain her own energy if she accepts to be around you).

Respect her for being a woman but don't EVER give in to her demands if they violate your reality.

You have to stand up to and for YOUR beliefs and let her know if she crossed the line.

She WILL respect you for that even if she throws a hissy-fit at first.

Unfortunately, with these kinds of women, if they're throwing any kind of 'fit', just think of what they'd be for the long term (I'm very serious), but if you just want short-term sex, then respect her as a woman, but you have to let her know what kind of relationship you're open to having with her from the start, so she doesn't start throwing things off-track like they naturally do.

At the beginning, respect her by saving both her and your time (and money) by letting her know the type of relationship you are going to have with her, and she can take it or leave it.

She'll be glad you were man enough and honest enough and because girls want to have fun, she might just decide to go with you to get rid of social pressures and have fun and just be herself.

She will greatly respect you for being the only guy to give her this refreshing option.
In a more serious relationship, things get trickier when emotions are involved especially with independent women.

It's all about give and take then.

I don't talk about relationships like that other than to prevent disaster from happening.

If you're dating her, you have to lead the way as a man, but do respect her mind and her body while letting her know where you're coming from.

Treat her not like a little girl (by being her daddy), but like an independent woman while having a mutually beneficial interdependent physical/sexual/fun or even dating relationship.

I've always respected the women I've been with in the past, even and especially the one-nighters.

It's a consenting adults win/win situation.

So don't be like Stifler afterwards and 'hittin' that high C note' with your buddies, rather accept it as part of your life that you respect them esp. because you took them there, stud.


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