DATING TIPS: BE THE 'R' RATED GUY AND NOT THE 'G' OR 'X' RATED GUY.

If you start throwing off a vibe like, "Yeah baby I want to pound your 'P@ssy and do you this way and that way," she's probably going to get creeped out completely and will never give you a chance.
Depending on the girl and situation you may get thrown in jail.

There's a time and place for that X-Rated stuff (adult chat rooms) and whether it is what's going through your mind or not, don't be showing that off to women you just met.

It also connotates too much dependency on having to 'have her' or 'take something' that you're objectifying (whether she has a nice ass or not).

I recommend being the 'R' rated guy (props goes to 'Swingers' the movie) instead of being the X rated guy.


Have her guess where you're coming from by just being the natural, sociable cool guy without giving into her supposed 'powers' or a pussytrance by being PG-13 with her.

Once she starts interacting with you and shows interest (and you'll know because you'll be more connected to the nonverbal level of sexual communication b/c you'll have cleared out the other junk), you can communicate with her on the deeper, sexual level by maybe mentioning a few rated 'R' things or light innuendos.

Do this only and especially if you feel she is responding to you and connecting with you non verbally.

This is a way you can never lose when you really are 'reading her' and that you can accelerate things to a higher level quickly.

When you become in touch with the nonverbal level of sexual communication, you'll know what I mean.

But first, you have to wipe away all of the other junk in the way from this natural ability you already have.

Yes, there's certain jerk type guys who get away with X-Rated things; "Hey sweet thing, nice tits...let me stare at them some more," but to be real... this doesn't work on most healthy women.

So just be a natural, socially desirable guy (not an outcast), and then approach her PG-13 without fear or pretension and then if she responds, take things to level rated 'R' in your behavior and language.

Eventually things can lead to rated 'X' anyways without creeping her out.


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