ARE YOU TRYING TOO HARD AT DATING

Here's something I've learned about attracting women a few years ago:
If you feel like you're trying too hard with a woman, you probably are.

For example, if you walk up to a woman to compliment her, and when you do, your throat feels dry because you can "feel" you're being lame and you can "sense" that the woman thinks you're lame too, you're probably right!

So what do you do if you find yourself in such a situation?

The key is to pull back and start acting like a challenge IMMEDIATELY.

For example, if you've just complimented her on her watch and you're beating yourself over it in your mind because you know it's a normal-looking watch and she can tell you're trying too hard, immediately follow up by saying something "bad" about it to tease her. (Example: "Too bad the face is so small. How do you read the time? You must have small eyes.")

Next, look into her eyes and smile to let her know you were kidding about the whole thing. DON'T LOOK AWAY until she does. This will give you back some power and make her forget how uncomfortable you were just a few minutes ago.

Finally, cut the conversation thread and change topics COMPLETELY. This will help ease the awkwardness and make you seem less desperate. (It will also help if you pull back and flirt with other girls in front of her.)