DATING TIPS: BE HONEST IN YOUR INTENTIONS

If you want to accelerate things very fast and NEVER experience rejection, you're going to have lay out your 'terms' before she even has a chance.

Doing this is a very alpha male characteristic plus you're really letting her know where you're coming from.

Even though I have done this many times before I met him, I still have to give some props for first stating this general philosophy publicly.

But it's a universal trait of highly effective alpha males and it applies to everything they're doing in their life.

We just don't have time to waste putzing around with the courtship game because it's not what we or the women we're interested in are after anyways right now.

Most importantly, just being honest about who you are, what you want and expect from her and letting her know (preferably upfront shortly after you meet) is actually a relief to most women so they don't even 'have to' reject you or play the painstaking 'dating game' of what's he thinking now/what's
she thinking now... they can just 'toe the line' to your reality or 'fall out'; it's their choice but you're moving on either way because you've got women to do, things to see.


Actually I just sent an email to a Singapore model that I had met on the internet and met in person a few years ago when we were just 'dating' with all those hidden expectations.

… And I just broke the ice and told her... “Look, I don’t want to waste your time or mine so basically we're either going to have a physical and fun relationship or we'll just be friends without benefits.

"I'm meeting other people (women) and don't have time to waste. I won't have time to go there to have continued uncertainty about where we stand. I respect you greatly, but you're too independent (like me) so our relationship could never work for the long term, but if we put all that other junk aside, we can just have fun in a respectful way... just wanted you to know where I stand whatever you decide.

Let me know if you still want to meet up."

It doesn't even MATTER what her answer is because I have the power, plus I haven't lost anything anyways. Now multiply this around dozens of other women and see what happens... it's not difficult.
That's worth the price of admission right tharre. Git'rdun.
And…

Actually doing this can turn a woman on (whether she admits it or not) because she has finally met a man and her body might start thinking about lustily things because of the certainty involved and yet the powerful attraction of a real man.

She wants to have fun, baby and you're letting her!

It's the absolute fastest way to take things from fantasy to reality and increase your chances of success.

If she says 'No', you're so self-secure that she's the one that's turning down a guaranteed valuable, unforgettable good time, but it doesn't matter anyways because you are an independent man that is going places and has had or will have hotter women than her anyways (but try not to see it like
that b/c it's a limiting scarcity mentality with hints of dependency involved).

And you do this before she even has a chance to reject or disqualify 'you'... you've taken all the cards out of her hand before she could do anything.

You're the one showing that you have the power. And she may come calling back to you if you leave the 'door open'... "All right, just let me know if you change your mind and then we'll see".

You keep the power and it's a transactional interdependent relationship with future potential.
You can even upgrade your girlfriends (if you're not sure where you stand) to FTF when done properly and respectfully.

Women will 'know' that they have a sure bet with you and one day might just be so desperate to get rid of all the social pressure from all of their 'suitors' or all the X rated 'creeps' that you'll be the one guy she can trust because she knows where you're coming from AND will respect her for it.
In doing this...

You can't get rejected because you're laying out your turf and if she says yes, it's on like Donkey Kong, and you can experience a great 'free' time together without all of the social junk.
And it's all done in a very honest but respectful way.

You know you can please her (or any woman) and you don't like to put up with all of the false social expectations and junk any more than she does that's stopping you from having a good time with her or any other hot woman.

And whether she says yes or no, it's still a win/win because we're both saving time and we still respect each other anyways. And it feels absolutely liberating to let your inner reality become real like this... try it!

It cuts right through all the other social B.S. and unstated expectations or confusions and let's her know where you stand so she can decide to follow or not.

It also differentiates you from all of the other men, elevates your social status to leader of your own pack and makes other men look bland because even if they're great catches, she doesn't have enough information about them to go off of.

This creates a powerful vacuum of attraction.

Of course you don't have to have looks, money or even high social status... if you can just have a really strong reality, that's often strong enough because women are attracted to men who are alpha's and act like it.

Her body and then mind can't resist the forces of attraction and she'll put aside your other misnomers 'blinded' by the feelings she's feeling. However I do recommend truly respecting her and her body and adding value to her life; not trying to 'get dupe' or 'take something' away from her.

But you just can't 'lose' especially when you do it before she puts her independent cards on the table and comes up with objections.

As a man you're SUPPOSED to lead and that's what she wants; a man who stands up for himself could stand up for HER when it comes down to the wire.

Sometimes just letting her know your expected reality is the only way to cut straight right through as fast as possible to get the hottest women (often the most repressed and anxious) who may be ready at that time or in the near future...plus you can relieve THEM of all of the social pressures and they will
love you for it, Dick.

It's best to do this upfront when you're first meeting a woman though. To start things off right.
However, if you haven't been a wussy but maybe are just unsure of where the relationship stands... feel free to put an ultimatum out there and truly believe it.

And do have the intention of being able to walk away easily from her without remorse... it's not a dependency.

Unless you have kids, your relation to anyone in the world should never be a dependency once you reached the age of 18.

Not even marriage.

It's interdependency.

Just being honest about whatever your expectations are saves a lot of drama, time and heartache on both sides.

If you do just want a 'dating' relationship and want to play that social/cultural ritual where you keep spending money and delay sex (I've played it before) then keep calling her and talk about what kind of furniture and kids you're going to have.


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