MAKE CONNECTIONS

Notice I didn't say 'approach women'.

I think that has a certain stigma which brings out past feelings of ineffectiveness in men creating more of a barrier to break.

Living a healthy, balanced and social life however, you can 'make connections'.

The most important things in life that you remember are experiences you have shared with other people.

In fact, all relationships must start with a connection... in a way, this is the essence of life and everything everyone hoped for.

You can continue to live in a fantasy world alone OR you can start making connections with women.
You don't have to do it all the time or every opportunity, but once you start developing a more interdependent state of mind and become more naturally proactive (instead of shark attack aggressive and focused on pussy), you can be meeting women and talking to them (and other people) everywhere you go.


No man is an island.
And you can be for a long time but there's a huge chunk missing out of life.

Don't live life on the 'tourist plane'... it's all in the experiences.
Your relationships with women (at least mine are) are one of the most important things in your/my life.

The way I see it, the more women I meet, the more unique experiences and lasting memories I can have because I will have added value to their lives.

It's a world of abundance and when you start 'connecting' (which is what women naturally do and WANT in men) with women (and people) instead of aggressively 'approaching' or trying to 'get something from them, you'll respect them more yet get further faster and more often when you do
everything else online that I teach (being a natural).

Plus you'll have given a woman what she wants.

She doesn't want a man to seduce, trick or dupe her into giving something up.
She desires a great experience from a man she can trust (showing who you truly are up front is a key here that accelerates) who knows what he wants out of life and she can choose to follow or not.
But if you don't make the connection (usually just saying 'Hi, what's up?') you'll never know.
It's about being 'real' and not building up a fantasy world around her.

It's about respect and giving her a chance.
You don't need to know 'what to say' as it will come to you naturally when you truly get it.
There's nothing to be afraid of; you're being social and if she rejects you for being social... RUN AWAY... that is a scary woman that you don't need in your life who has REAL life issues and has been programmed too deeply by our forced reality.

Get it?

Once you make connections with women, you can take it to the next level from there (another field of study).
You can have EVERYTHING going for you (improved your looks, great self image, living in your reality attracting women without a word, fashion sense, and showing who you are on the outside as a representation of your inside so she can extrapolate what she's been waiting for...), yet STILL not
proactively make (natural) connections and you can still be cutting your success down drastically.

Even if you don't work on your inner game or anything else but DO make connections (and naturally not from the pick up or seduction standpoint), you'll increase your ability to have success with her (esp. because you already know what to do naturally, it's just been covered up).

Connecting with other people is part of human nature and being afraid of women is pathetically ridiculous.

Who cares if she has super high social value... you're above that anyways because you understand it, PLUS you have a mirrored reflection of a different kind of value or desire within yourself (if not, you'd better start to bring something to the table) that's equal or greater than her social shallow beauty
fixation.

She could be a neurotic housebreaking bitch but you actually are a good catch on the inside and you're not going to put up with any of her drama despite her looks (going off on a more extreme example that is out there though).



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