An Inside Look at Self-Disclosure
What else does research reveal about self-disclosure? Here are some interesting findings to think about:
• Women typically disclose more than men. Some men find it difficult to reveal information about themselves and their relationships. If you are a woman dating a man, don’t expect your date to
tell you quite as much as you may be telling him. If you are a man dating a woman, don’t be surprised when she presses you for more information than you care to reveal.
Showing posts with label Boyfriend 911. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Boyfriend 911. Show all posts
WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR BOYFRIEND IS LATE ON DATE BECAUSE OF CAR TROUBLE
Was your boyfriend ever late for a date because of car trouble?
Everyone experiences the inconvenience of a car trouble every now and then, and if your boyfriend was ever late because of it, do ask exactly what kind of trouble he ran into before you get mad at him. Overheating, getting a flat tire, being involved in a minor car accident, all these when true (not that guys ever lie..) are acceptable and you might want to consider extra sweet behavior on your part just to make him feel better about his day. However, if he says that the "car trouble" he experienced was something like getting his engine tweaked for optimum performance, changing his head lights so that they would now be "super white" or that he couldn't decide which set of mag wheels he wanted to get, then this signals trouble for you. I mean, we are talking about frivolous things here! all of these could easily be done on any other day (or even not at all!) and yet he chooses to do so right before a date with you. I suppose the rule of thumb would be: Anything that doesn't need to be done right away shouldn't be done at your expense. So, if he was ever late for any of these inane reasons, chalk up one point for the car for every time this happens.
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Everyone experiences the inconvenience of a car trouble every now and then, and if your boyfriend was ever late because of it, do ask exactly what kind of trouble he ran into before you get mad at him. Overheating, getting a flat tire, being involved in a minor car accident, all these when true (not that guys ever lie..) are acceptable and you might want to consider extra sweet behavior on your part just to make him feel better about his day. However, if he says that the "car trouble" he experienced was something like getting his engine tweaked for optimum performance, changing his head lights so that they would now be "super white" or that he couldn't decide which set of mag wheels he wanted to get, then this signals trouble for you. I mean, we are talking about frivolous things here! all of these could easily be done on any other day (or even not at all!) and yet he chooses to do so right before a date with you. I suppose the rule of thumb would be: Anything that doesn't need to be done right away shouldn't be done at your expense. So, if he was ever late for any of these inane reasons, chalk up one point for the car for every time this happens.
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WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR BOYFRIEND IS FLIRTING
My boyfriend is a flirt!
You learn from several reliable sources that your boyfriend was seen at the mall last Saturday with a pretty girl.
Solution:
To get the real story without sounding totally insecure and hysterical (mucho unattractive), confront him calmly and ask him if there is any truth to the rumors. Don't sound accusing, as this will automatically make him defensive. Under no circumstances should you go and confront the other girl! You will only appear pathetic, believe me! If your boyfriend gives you a reasonable explanation and reassures you that you're his only girl, then let it rest. But if the rumors continue and he really seems like he is disregarding your feelings - a boyfriend who flirts is someone who doesn't recognize boundaries - it's time to give him the boot. You don't need that kind of stress.
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You learn from several reliable sources that your boyfriend was seen at the mall last Saturday with a pretty girl.
Solution:
To get the real story without sounding totally insecure and hysterical (mucho unattractive), confront him calmly and ask him if there is any truth to the rumors. Don't sound accusing, as this will automatically make him defensive. Under no circumstances should you go and confront the other girl! You will only appear pathetic, believe me! If your boyfriend gives you a reasonable explanation and reassures you that you're his only girl, then let it rest. But if the rumors continue and he really seems like he is disregarding your feelings - a boyfriend who flirts is someone who doesn't recognize boundaries - it's time to give him the boot. You don't need that kind of stress.
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WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR BOYFRIEND COMPARES YOU TO HIS EX GIRL FRIENDS
My boyfriend compares me with his ex girlfriend
You're all dressed up for the prom and feeling pretty good, when your boyfriend casually mentions that your floor-length gown would look better on his taller ex.
Solution:
Bursting into tears and exploding in anger isn't going to help any! Keep your intense negative emotions in check by calmly delivering non-confrontational comebacks such as: "Why would you want to hurt my feelings?" This way, your boyfriend will realize that comparing you with other girls (especially his ex or exes) is a major no-no! Not only is it distasteful, it's just plain rude! I mean, could he take it if you start measuring him up with your ex who was the star soccer player? (And though it's a tempting prospect, don't retaliate and stoop that low or you'll be just as bad as he is!)
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You're all dressed up for the prom and feeling pretty good, when your boyfriend casually mentions that your floor-length gown would look better on his taller ex.
Solution:
Bursting into tears and exploding in anger isn't going to help any! Keep your intense negative emotions in check by calmly delivering non-confrontational comebacks such as: "Why would you want to hurt my feelings?" This way, your boyfriend will realize that comparing you with other girls (especially his ex or exes) is a major no-no! Not only is it distasteful, it's just plain rude! I mean, could he take it if you start measuring him up with your ex who was the star soccer player? (And though it's a tempting prospect, don't retaliate and stoop that low or you'll be just as bad as he is!)
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WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR BOYFRIEND WANTS TO DO THINGS YOU DO NOT LIKE
My Boyfriend wants me to do things I don't like.
You're watching a movie with your boyfriend, when you feel his hand, which was around your shoulder, making its way to "forbidden territory." You want to tell him you're getting uncomfortable without making a drama-queen scene.
Solution:
Just like dealing with peer pressure, make a stand and be consistent with your convictions (don't give him mixed signals!). Be firm and honest and tell him that you're uncomfortable with the situation. If he cares about you, he'll be concerned about your feelings; only guys who don't respect you will force you to do things against your will. (And are therefore not worth your time.)
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You're watching a movie with your boyfriend, when you feel his hand, which was around your shoulder, making its way to "forbidden territory." You want to tell him you're getting uncomfortable without making a drama-queen scene.
Solution:
Just like dealing with peer pressure, make a stand and be consistent with your convictions (don't give him mixed signals!). Be firm and honest and tell him that you're uncomfortable with the situation. If he cares about you, he'll be concerned about your feelings; only guys who don't respect you will force you to do things against your will. (And are therefore not worth your time.)
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WHAT TO DO IF YOUR BOYFRIEND IS INTENTIONALLY HURTS YOU
My boyfriend intentionally hurts me.
You're in the middle of an argument and your boyfriend calls you nasty names - and this isn't the first time.
Solution:
Break up now!!! If the relationship has deteriorated to a point that hurting each other has become habitual, it is time to break away before you end up breaking something else - your self esteem, or your bones. Psychotherapist Debra Schindler says, "Staying in a damaging relationship leaves you vulnerable to further abuse, which tends to worsen as one partner seeks to dominate the other, who tolerates this kind of severe treatment." Respect yourself, girl! You know that you deserve better than this. It is time to break away and find someone who will treat you right.
Tell your parents about this so they will do the right thing to prevent it happening again. Or contact a police or worse have a TRO (Temporary Restraining Order). Physical abuse is in the women rights. You should know your value and your rights.
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You're in the middle of an argument and your boyfriend calls you nasty names - and this isn't the first time.
Solution:
Break up now!!! If the relationship has deteriorated to a point that hurting each other has become habitual, it is time to break away before you end up breaking something else - your self esteem, or your bones. Psychotherapist Debra Schindler says, "Staying in a damaging relationship leaves you vulnerable to further abuse, which tends to worsen as one partner seeks to dominate the other, who tolerates this kind of severe treatment." Respect yourself, girl! You know that you deserve better than this. It is time to break away and find someone who will treat you right.
Tell your parents about this so they will do the right thing to prevent it happening again. Or contact a police or worse have a TRO (Temporary Restraining Order). Physical abuse is in the women rights. You should know your value and your rights.
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WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR BOYFRIEND HATE YOUR GUY FRIENDS
My boyfriend absolutely hates my guy friends
The boy next door has been your buddy ever since you were in diapers. And your boyfriend is insanely jealous of your "history".
Solution:
Even among experts, the concept of opposite - sex best friends is still open to debate. To psychiatrist Robert Mueller, a perfectly platonic relationship between a boy and a girl is possible, while to another psychologist, Signe Echols, it's just a "convenient excuse to cover up attraction." Either way, the best thing to do is to be very open with your honey about your relationship with your best friend. Better yet, have them meet so that your boyfriend can see for himself that your guy bud isn't a threat. In fact, he could be an asset - he could give your honey tips on how to treat you right, and even tell him funny stories about your childhood! To prevent jealous outbreaks, treat the boys differently - save the sweet talk for your boyfriend (Duh!). If your guy best friend is really just that (and doesn't have any HD or "hidden desire" for you), he should understand that you won't be spending as much time with him.
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The boy next door has been your buddy ever since you were in diapers. And your boyfriend is insanely jealous of your "history".
Solution:
Even among experts, the concept of opposite - sex best friends is still open to debate. To psychiatrist Robert Mueller, a perfectly platonic relationship between a boy and a girl is possible, while to another psychologist, Signe Echols, it's just a "convenient excuse to cover up attraction." Either way, the best thing to do is to be very open with your honey about your relationship with your best friend. Better yet, have them meet so that your boyfriend can see for himself that your guy bud isn't a threat. In fact, he could be an asset - he could give your honey tips on how to treat you right, and even tell him funny stories about your childhood! To prevent jealous outbreaks, treat the boys differently - save the sweet talk for your boyfriend (Duh!). If your guy best friend is really just that (and doesn't have any HD or "hidden desire" for you), he should understand that you won't be spending as much time with him.
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WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR BOYFRIEND WANTS YOU TO CHOOSE BETWEEN HIM AND YOUR FRIENDS
My boyfriend wants me to choose between him and my friends.
They can't stand each other's guts, and you're caught in between!
Solutions:
Never, ever take sides. You wouldn't want anyone to feel betrayed here. Talk to both parties separately, take note of their points, and then reach a compromise. Make them understand that it's important to have them both in your life. If it's impossible to hang with both parties at once, arrange a "loose schedule" so you can spend quality time with each of them. However, if their complaints are valid (i.e., the love of your life is a Casanova or your friends are too cliquish) be sure to rethink your relationship with the concerned party seriously. According to developmental psychologist John F. Travers, during our teenage years it is common to mix up our different relationships. As we get older we learn from experience that the relationship between best friends and boyfriend-girlfriend are two very different things.
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They can't stand each other's guts, and you're caught in between!
Solutions:
Never, ever take sides. You wouldn't want anyone to feel betrayed here. Talk to both parties separately, take note of their points, and then reach a compromise. Make them understand that it's important to have them both in your life. If it's impossible to hang with both parties at once, arrange a "loose schedule" so you can spend quality time with each of them. However, if their complaints are valid (i.e., the love of your life is a Casanova or your friends are too cliquish) be sure to rethink your relationship with the concerned party seriously. According to developmental psychologist John F. Travers, during our teenage years it is common to mix up our different relationships. As we get older we learn from experience that the relationship between best friends and boyfriend-girlfriend are two very different things.
If you want to submit articles, poems, love stories, love letters, write ups you like to share to us and to the world. Kindly email us at help.bookofdistraction@gmail.com We will email you back once it is up on our site with credits and feature you as the author of the month. Continue supporting www.bookofbeautifuldistraction.blogspot.com Thank You my Loves! xoxo ;)
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WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR BOYFRIEND WONT ALLOW YOU TO GO OUT
My boyfriend disapproves of my activities!
You're very excited because you're going to the beach with your friends, but your boyfriend is NOT, and his tantrums blues (feeling upset and keep on ignoring) are spoiling your fun.
Solution:
Even if this shows that he wants to be with you 24/7, remind him in a tactful way that you also value your life outside your relationship. Just like quality time, "quality space" also matters, in order to grow. Nurture your unique personalities and interest, so you can become better individuals and have more things to share with your partner. However, if your activities could be dangerous, your boyfriend does have a point and a right to speak up. It just shows how much he cares about you.
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You're very excited because you're going to the beach with your friends, but your boyfriend is NOT, and his tantrums blues (feeling upset and keep on ignoring) are spoiling your fun.
Solution:
Even if this shows that he wants to be with you 24/7, remind him in a tactful way that you also value your life outside your relationship. Just like quality time, "quality space" also matters, in order to grow. Nurture your unique personalities and interest, so you can become better individuals and have more things to share with your partner. However, if your activities could be dangerous, your boyfriend does have a point and a right to speak up. It just shows how much he cares about you.
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WHAT TO DO WHEN YOUR BOYFRIEND IS TOO POSSESSIVE
My boyfriend is super possessive!
You're the star cheer dancer in your school - and countless admirers are all part of the package. Unfortunately, your boyfriend (who's a low - profile person on campus) Thinks that he'll lose you to one of those hunkier boys if he doesn't keep you on a leash!
Solution:
Jealousy is indeed the "plague of relationships" as Andrew Mathews wrote in his third book, Follow your heart. Nothing guarantees that destruction of a bond faster than "strangling" the person that you care about. I like to use this analogy. The more you tighten your grip on them, the more they'll struggle to get away from you. Ask him to show faith in you, and at the same time, try to be a little more sensitive and reassure him that he's still your Numero Uno by spending quality time with him. Your guy will melt and will be less uptight if you show him that, even though you've got suitors left and right, you're already heappily "taken" by someone that suits you best - him!
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You're the star cheer dancer in your school - and countless admirers are all part of the package. Unfortunately, your boyfriend (who's a low - profile person on campus) Thinks that he'll lose you to one of those hunkier boys if he doesn't keep you on a leash!
Solution:
Jealousy is indeed the "plague of relationships" as Andrew Mathews wrote in his third book, Follow your heart. Nothing guarantees that destruction of a bond faster than "strangling" the person that you care about. I like to use this analogy. The more you tighten your grip on them, the more they'll struggle to get away from you. Ask him to show faith in you, and at the same time, try to be a little more sensitive and reassure him that he's still your Numero Uno by spending quality time with him. Your guy will melt and will be less uptight if you show him that, even though you've got suitors left and right, you're already heappily "taken" by someone that suits you best - him!
If you want to submit articles, poems, love stories, love letters, write ups you like to share to us and to the world. Kindly email us at help.bookofdistraction@gmail.com We will email you back once it is up on our site with credits and feature you as the author of the month. Continue supporting www.bookofbeautifuldistraction.blogspot.com
Thank You my Loves! xoxo ;)
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WHAT TO DO IF MY BOYFRIEND IS TOO DEMANDING
My boyfriend is too demanding!
You're just finished talking to your lab partner about what to do with those pesky guinea pig. As soon as you put down the phone, it rings again. It's your honey, griping about how he's been trying to call you for awhile now but the line was busy. When you say it was an important call, he demands to know who you were talking to and why!
Solution:
Resist the urge to slam the phone! Instead, placidly tell him the truth - it was your lab partner asking about the guinea pigs. Now, if your boyfriend refuses to believe that and he makes a big issue of it, it's his problem. (Hang on, have you been giving him reasons to mistrust you? Think about that.) Don't fuel the fire by getting all angry and defensive. When things get heated up, the best course of action is to coolly tell him your side. Don't put yourself in a position where you might say something that you don't really mean. If he won't let up, tell him to talk to you late when you've both calmed down.
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You're just finished talking to your lab partner about what to do with those pesky guinea pig. As soon as you put down the phone, it rings again. It's your honey, griping about how he's been trying to call you for awhile now but the line was busy. When you say it was an important call, he demands to know who you were talking to and why!
Solution:
Resist the urge to slam the phone! Instead, placidly tell him the truth - it was your lab partner asking about the guinea pigs. Now, if your boyfriend refuses to believe that and he makes a big issue of it, it's his problem. (Hang on, have you been giving him reasons to mistrust you? Think about that.) Don't fuel the fire by getting all angry and defensive. When things get heated up, the best course of action is to coolly tell him your side. Don't put yourself in a position where you might say something that you don't really mean. If he won't let up, tell him to talk to you late when you've both calmed down.
If you want to submit articles, poems, love stories, love letters, write ups you like to share to us and to the world. Kindly email us at help.bookofdistraction@gmail.com We will email you back once it is up on our site with credits and feature you as the author of the month. Continue supporting www.bookofbeautifuldistraction.blogspot.com
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